Gay dating after 40
giving back to the community that I love. Any feedback would be appreciated and can be sent. Comb your hair and trim those nose hairs! You must be proactive and go after what you want or the likelihood of success is minimized. If youre ready to age forward and begin your own transformation and your heart and soul are saying, Lets Do this!, I hope youll take the leap with us and contact. It happens and it isnt anything that you can do to stop.
And its that eventual realization that perhaps leads some people myself included to simply give up on the whole idea. And like an X Factor contestant who has just been shot down by Simon Cowell, its hard not to wonder sometimes whether one should actually be chasing a different dream. I like this site and I feel great that I was able to participate in this way. It took a few years, and what seems like a few thousand dates, to reach this conclusion, and a few more to realize that the only way to stop the emotional carnage was to take myself out of the game. Theres someone out there for everybody, is an oft-repeated mantra of consolation. If someone doesnt measure up, dont settle for less than what you want but look at guys of all shapes, sizes and colors. What makes this group even more disturbing is that, at least in my case, its always been from a man who asked me for the date, not the other way around. In his seminal book, The Velvet Rage, writer Alan Downs touches upon how gay men often seek fame, success and recognition to compensate for a lack of self-esteem having grown-up in a world which tells them a fundamental part of their character is shameful.